r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.The husband has lived in their apartment for a number of years. The owners recently sold it and the new ones are moving in, so my daughter and her husband have to move. The problem is rents have gone up dramatically.Sucks to be him. NTA. "Honey if you need a suit of armor - stop talking about who has the most experience sexually. Telling me I could be a pro was designed to either make me laugh, or insult me. I chose to laugh at your joke. But, if you can't handle me joking back - stop making that kind of comment." 1.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband to tell his mom to settle the baby. Not the A-hole. Obligotory English isn't my native language warning. I (F36) have a baby (10wks) with my husband (M36). Our son is amazing and a pretty easy baby. My son already sleeps through the night which is a godsend. However, this does require a strict nighttime ...My MIL was furious when she found out we weren't having kids. We tried setting boundaries with her on this and other topics but she's stubborn. After 4 years of her behavior, we slowly cut off most contact except for family gatherings and such. She was, for the lack of a better term, third wheeling our marriage.She loves me and we have plans for the future but she keeps bringing up all the things her friends get from their make admirers. I finally snapped and said that I could not afford to be a sugar daddy. She said her friends aren't like that. So I pointed out that they literally do not make enough money to support the lifestyles they have.Eve was going, she's not a baby & there was nothing dangerous about it. She started yelling about how I am a "stepmom" now, not a friend & I needed to start acting like it. I told her that I was never going to be a stepmom, I'm just her dad's wife & that's the relationship that's working for all of us.It was a confident, high-powered investment firm with credit lines at top financial institutions. It made big bets using borrowed money to buy assets and generate higher returns. B...The idea and concept was definitely fresh, and they asked my husband if he would like to invest in their business and become a partner. My husband is also a successful entrepreneur so he knows a good business idea if he sees one. Since my husband already had a lot on his place, he turned down their offer but offered to give them a loan.There's a reason pregnancy is a life threatening condition. You need birth control your husband can't tamper with. I have 6 kids, all conceived on birth control. In my case, it's a medical condition. Basically, I am hyperfertile and my body breaks down birth control faster than most women.Have you ever looked back on your 20s only to realize just how much you've learned about financial responsibility? What's your money maturity? Has it changed over time? I’d never g...A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.AITA for telling my husband to stop spending so much money on his dead girlfriend’s younger sister? I (28F) have been with my husband (34M) for almost a decade. We have three children (6F, 3M, 2F) together, and we are currently expecting our fourth child. He is an amazing father to our kids and I couldn't ask for a better husband.Organic-Gas-9693. AITA For telling my kids I don't care if they ever have kids. Not the A-hole. I (59) have a son (40) from when I was young and dumb. He has six kids with his wife I have two kids from my marriage. A NB child 24, and a daughter 21. They both know they have an older half brother and nieces and nephews through him but haven't ...There's a YouTube channel where the cashier hands men flowers as a nice gesture, and sure men are fragile and they can't hold purses or flowers, even if buying one for their girl, okay fine. But these men's responses were to threaten the cashier he'd be beat up, telling him to come outside and fight, throwing merchandise on the floor and screaming.I think that's another good point/INFO. I'm curious if OP and her husband had a conversation about the effects a second job could have on their relationship, time-wise. One person being in super-work mode can make a huge difference. > it seems like OP's husband has a great big case of "what's mine is mine and what's yours is also mine.AITA- Husband broke something of mine- I think he should pay for it. My husband got me a diecast motorbike about 6 years ago of my favourite motorbike. It was lovingly looked after on my desk at my old job and then again when I went to working from home. In January, I managed to knock it off of its shelf and I was absolutely gutted.AITA for telling my husband he gets no say in how i give birth. I 25f am 7 months pregnant with our first child. My husband 27m and I are both incredibly excited. My husband is a good man, but is kind of stubborn and is a know it all at times. We were discussing my birth plan with my nurse, and I plan on giving birth in a hospital based birth ...UPDATE. UPDATE: AITA for "hiding" my saving from my fiancé. My fiancé and I have spent the last week talking a lot about this. We started talking about it the day after my post. There was actually a lot to talk about, because she had a lot of thoughts and feelings. When we started talking I told her about the post very quickly.True - my mom worked with autistic students for 15 years. One of her sayings to the kids is "There's being autistic and being an a-hole. You're being an a-hole." A lot of kids that came to her (she worked in a high school) had been taught to use their autism as an excuse for bad behavior.She called my husband ungrateful. My husband was pissed at this point and told his her majority of our income is from me so he's embarrassed to even consider loaning them the money. Now her anger shifted to me. She told my husband I am ruining their family. That's when my husband dropped the call. He told me he's sorry and not to think about it.If you were a good partner, you'd support him during this time, and go with him. If you can't do that, then let him grieve in peace. Honestly the only reason you "hated" her was because she was his ex. Her husband got past this and was even friends with your husband. Your just jealous and petty. Reply.Two months ago my husband of 5 years (45M) surprised me and said he booked us a 10 day vacation to Italy. We leave July 28th. My husband is a special ed middle school teacher so school is out until September. He has been making extra money on the side as a tutor.By the end of the night, he owed my brother-in-law around £5,000 which isn’t the type of money my brother can just easily hand over. When I saw my brother he looked like he was on the verge of a panic attack. After I forced him to tell me what happened I confronted my brother-in-law who thought the entire thing was just some harmless fun.My husband then proceeds to yell and cuss at me, telling me I'm the most selfish person in the world for getting upset by what he said. He then tells me I'm a spoiled brat because he just bought us a cabin 2 months ago (this is a rental property).After we got married, I moved into his on a temporary basis while we sold mine, and then we used the money from mine and a loan on the value of his to buy a new house together - after which we sold his and used that money to pay off the loan. I don't remember ever asking to see the deed for my husband's house before I married him either.Context: My sister (F27) and I (18F) lost our dad a year ago. He was my only parent, mom was never in mine or my sister's life. Dad left money (inheritance) for me and sister and she used her inhertance to get new cars and renovate her house I live with my aunt right now cause my brother inlaw didn't let me stay with my sister.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband he works for himself, not for our family. Not the A-hole. My husband and I have known each other for 6 years and been married for almost 3 years now. We have a one year old, and we're expecting another baby. Our marriage has been full of emotional highs, we love each other and let the other know regularly.Throwaway because my main is obviously me. So my husband (40)m and I (25)f share a bank account. There are three kids in the house including my newborn (I didn’t take any maternity just kept working, I am also the baby’s exclusive caregiver, he does stuff for older kids) A few pieces of information, I started a business about 5 years ago that ended up working out really well (don’t worry ...My husband wanted to get them a decent wedding gift and tried borrowing money from friends and neighbors but got turned down. He kept stressing out about it for weeks and just the other day (the wedding was days prior and the groom and bride are off to their honeymoon) I discovered that my jewelry set was gone. I freaked after my husband …Apparently, Kate and Doug have been having marital problems for some time. OP's husband has been texting Kate on the down low, despite promising not to do so. And he admits to talking trash about his own wife. He's been, at a minimum, emotionally cheating and deceiving OP for years - and possibly a lot more.AITA for not wanting to give up my college fund to pay for my younger brother's treatment. The treatment could possibly improve my brother's quality of life and or save his live altogether, and I can fund it, but I don't want to. As a result my dad and his wife think I'm TA. Help keep the sub engaging!My husband makes 150k+ a year but decides where every dollar and cent goes. 50% to day-to-day expenses, 25% to the children's education savings, 10% to family savings, 7.5% to his personal spending and 7.5% to my personal spending. Any bonus he makes or money back from taxes goes immediately into retirement.My husband who is never really home anyways (he is a trucker) wants to start picking up extra loads and making more money so that we can basically help his mom financially. I told my husband that I think that she should suck it up. She is in her mid 40's, has a decent paying job, all of her kids are grown, and she can work a 2nd job (if necessary).OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1.) Telling my husband I can't keep letting him leave open beers in the fridge. 2.) Because it shows that I don't respect my husbands wishes. Help keep the sub engaging!Throwaway account. So me (26f) and my husband (28m), who I'll call "Jake" for this story, have been together for 5 years and married for 3. We have recently started trying for a baby as we both felt like that was the next step in our life together, and 3 weeks ago I got a positive test back.Based on your other comments: Your ex gives Emily $25 a week for lunch. You say school lunches are $5. By my math $5 x 5 days of school per week = $25. So your ex is paying only enough for her school lunches. Emily works part-time. She uses her own money to add to this to get lunches from restaurants.AITA for telling my wife I'm moving, it is up to her if she is coming with me or not. My wife and I have been married for 6 years and have 2 kids under 5. We live on the east coast in a two bedroom small house, COL here is insane. My parents moved down south a few years ago.At this point I realized it was a choice and my husband was his enabler. His parent's recently got kicked out of their home and his mom now lives with his sister and his dad is essentially homeless. (They knew they had to move 4 months prior.) His dad called today to ask for money and my husband hasn't heard from him until now.My kids have more time to study and do extracurriculars. They still have chores and they are still expected to clean up after themselves. My husband came to me last time I was home and said we should cut back on the service when I'm home. That I should be doing more housework. He thinks that we are wasting money.My ex and father to 2 of my kids is always promising them everything and rarely follows thru. It got to the point where now when their dad says something they hardly believe him and ask my husband to do it instead. My youngest doesn’t even like to talk on the phone with him for more then 5 mins and she’s only 4. But on their dads side of ...Just 6 months ago, the daughter asked for money for dental implants. I happily told my husband to be as generous as he can be since it's not always the case and she rarely ask for money. After that first time, she kept asking for more. One time it was grocery, next its day care bills, then phone bills.One could only hope it's a shitpost, but young widows/widowers get really really strange comments. I mean my mother in law said about a week after my husband passed that I was a single mom now and should try and get all the support I could. I can't imagine anyone calling an older widow single or anything, you just say they are a widow/widows.Ive 38F been married to my husband Rob 52M for 4 years now. My husband's late wife died 1 year before we met and we dated for 2 years before marriage. He has 2 kids 28-Madison and 26-Brett. Note I am not calling them my stepkids because they explicitly told me I am not their stepmom, just their dad's wife.With China slowing, there’s a lot of concern about the complicated global pipeline of companies and shippers that dig stuff out of the ground and sell it to the Asian giant. One of...Background: I (35) am married to my husband (37) of 6 years and working mother (nurse) of 3 kids. We were at my inlaws house for thanksgiving dinner and every family member was able to make it. We were at dinner table when my BIL started talking about his girlfriend's new fond hobby which is "dancing" and said she's been dancing for him every ...I am not The OOP, OOP is u/Educational_Pick_368. AITA For telling my husband that my stepdaughter can't return home until she pays my daughter back. Originally posted to r/AITAH. Thanks to u/queenlegolas for suggesting this BoRU. TRIGGER WARNING: destruction of property, verbal abuse, parental neglect Original Post Feb 13, 2024. I (30 f) have a 14 year old daughter Leia.Because of this my husband convinced himself I make them with “fake” milk/butter/whatever, and says they taste “off,” when I’m literally just following package directions and making the standard Ghirardelli dark chocolate brownies from the box. People really do get in their heads about this ish.He requested our finances to be split. Fine by me, because seeing how he blows through his money is so frusrtating. He says he has kids, commitments and has to provide but I don't think that kids would need that much money to live like the other kids. his bank account is always almost empty, Whileas mine has over 20k.Now one of my stepsisters is a solicitor and we were hoping that her first reaction would be to ensure her mother got at least 50% not 30.5 and we were correct a week after our solicitor sent the letter we recieved a notice of severence from my step sister informing my father that on the grounds him and my SM had split they are both entitled to ...The husband has lived in their apartment for a number of years. The owners recently sold it and the new ones are moving in, so my daughter and her husband have to move. The problem is rents have gone up dramatically.AITA: I told my FIL that his wife, my MIL, keeps asking us for money. Not the A-hole. Throwaway. My (33f) and my husband Matteo (31m) have been married for 4 months, together for 3 years. When we were dating his mom used to randomly call him up and ask for money, anywhere from 2-6 thousand dollars. He told me that she had been doing it for ...Food and service was amazing, had an artist draw me and my husband while we kissed. I noticed my MIL to be wearing a white simple dress, and didn't think much of it (even though I was a little upset). To have context, she is the only one besides me wearing the color. Later, when it was photo taking time, I was going to take a photo with my husband.My husband heads his family company and gives me spending money every month in addition to a credit card he takes care of. I don’t work—my days are spent looking after our two sons and, for a few days a week, keeping his mom company. She’s a lovely lady who’s still very active and enjoys taking me places. Every time we go out she always foots the …All gold material and again they are worth decent amount of money. My BIL has been with then gilfriend for 10 years and they recently got married. It was a huge deal for the family. My husband wanted to get them a decent wedding gift and tried borrowing money from friends and neighbors but got turned down.. When my husband lost his job and had trouble bouncing back, I paid foMy husband insists that it should be only 4 hours (in the mor AITA For Telling My Husband I Told You So And Laughing. admin December 21, 2023 AITA. : ob_end_flush (): Failed to send buffer of zlib output compression (0) in on line. I love my husband to pieces but I am so sick of being the adult Asshole. So earlier today I (28F) told my husband (30M) he needs to make more money, especially if we want to start a family. We were texting at work and I was just kinda casually telling him we need to make more money (especially living in Silicon Valley). I also told him “im waiting on you..Having a kids is in your hands….Ellen and I are not close, and never have been, we only saw each other at family get togethers. Ellen has a husband "Tom" (34). Tom is a nice guy, and when she introduced him to the family, he and my husband hit it off, and my husband ended up hiring Tom to work for him. Read this before contacting the mod team...
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